Peace cannot be kept by force. It can only be achieved by understanding - Albert Einstein.
The above statement is appropriate when you are managing disputes between divorcing couples, neighbours and family. When dealing with cases on the above matter, understanding from parties helps to come up with exciting and workable solutions for them.
An example that I can share would be a divorcing couple that I mediated. They were having trouble with coming up with their access conditions. I spent some time with the parties to think about what their children lives will be in the next five years, once they shared it. What do you think your life will be? They shared it too, now let's see how we can fit this together. There were more compromises and parties managed to achieve a agreement that they can live with.
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